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Self-Care Tips for the Summer

Self-Care Tips for the Summer

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Summer is typically associated with rest and relaxation. Between kids being home from school, and more activities and holidays, it can quickly become a hectic and stressful time of year. This is why it is so important to make time for yourself and ensure that you’re practicing self-care regularly this summer. This is a great time of year for self-care with longer days and often better weather. Whether you choose to spend an hour reading a book while poolside or take a walk outside in nature, practicing self-care is doing whatever you can to take care of your mental, emotional and physical health.

Understanding Why Self-Care Is Important

Let’s face it, life gets hectic. Between keeping up with work responsibilities, meeting deadlines, and making time for family, you may feel like you’re constantly running from one thing to the next without taking time to enjoy the moment or consider simply your personal needs. In time, this constant state of business can lead to problems like anxiety and depression. You may be so busy that you’re struggling with issues beneath the surface without realizing it, such as burnout, low-self esteem, or resentment. Sometimes people mistake self-care with being selfish when it is truly the exact opposite. You cannot care for others to the best of your ability until you take care of yourself first. Self-care is taking the time during your day to do just that. It is incredibly important not only for your mental health but your physical well-being as well. Self-care looks different from person to person, and what works for someone might not be the right fit for you. It may take time to figure out what works for you, but once you do, make sure to pencil it into your everyday schedule.

Self-Care Ideas That Are Perfect for the Summer

#1.) Take a break from the constant hustle and bustle and distractions of everyday life by going on a camping trip. Consider turning your phone on silent (or even leaving it at home) and enjoy the peace and quiet of the outdoors. You can reflect on the beauty of the outdoors, take photographs of nature, do some hiking or even spend some time journaling. You may find that when you return home, you’re more relaxed, recharged, and rejuvenated.

#2.) Spend some time out on the water. Being outside is incredibly beneficial for mental health and summer is a great time to do that. Whether you choose to go swimming, kayaking, boating, or paddleboarding, don’t let the summer pass by without having some fun on some open water.

#3.) Consider picking up photography. Between the blooming flowers, blue skies, and vibrant colors associated with summer, there is so much beauty to be found this time of year to capture. Photography can help you to begin appreciating the beauty of the little things in life.

#4.) Try starting a garden. Not only is this practice very calming, but it gets you outside in the sun. This can be a project that you do yourself or that you share with friends or family members. Plus, you’ll later get to enjoy the fruits of your labor, whether it be beautiful flowers or fresh produce.

#5.) Have a picnic outside. Picnics are a great way to spice up your routine and make what would be just an ordinary meal feel a little bit more fun and special.

#6.) Make a new summer playlist to listen to whenever you need to cheer yourself up.

#7.) Visit a local farmer’s market and take time just to walk around and enjoy the scenery.

#8.) Work on your physical health. If you’ve wanted to get back into shape, summer is the perfect time to do it. Consider investing in a gym membership or working with a trainer to come up with an exercise plan that works for you. If you tend to struggle with making healthy food choices, working with a nutritionist can help you develop a better diet.

Additional Self-Care Ideas

Some additional self-care ideas you could try this summer include:

  • Getting a babysitter so you can have some time for yourself
  • Practicing yoga or some other form of meditation
  • Creating some art
  • Listening to your favorite music
  • Having a dance party around your house
  • Taking a relaxing bubble bath
  • Trying out a new recipe
  • Enjoying a cup of tea before bed
  • Reading an uplifting book
  • Ask for help when you feel overwhelmed
  • Taking a day off from work so you can take care of yourself
  • Reconnect with an old friend

Life can get very busy and hectic. You may find yourself running from one thing to the next without ever taking the time to consider how you’re feeling. In time, this can lead to mental health issues like anxiety and depression. This is why self-care is so incredibly important for maintaining good mental health. Self-care is different from person to person and involves doing whatever you need to do to take care of your mental, physical and emotional well-being. This summer, consider practicing self-care by going camping, picking up photography, spending time out on the water, or working on your physical health. You may also consider practicing yoga, journaling, having a picnic outside, or trying a new recipe. At Achieve Concierge, we want to help you achieve your best possible mental health. Call (858) 221-0344 today to learn more about the services we provide. 

The Impact of Comparison on Mental Health

The Impact of Comparison on Mental Health

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The comparison starts at an early age. Perhaps we wish we had the same toys as one of our friends or the backpack they have. As we grow older, this turns into comparing our appearances, grades, popularity, and successes to others. When you don’t make it a habit to avoid comparison, it can continue well into adulthood. You may find yourself comparing how much money you make to others or where you are in terms of relationships, education, or careers. Comparison is often referred to as “the thief of joy,” and this title is very accurate. Comparison causes you to look away from the good things in your life and focus on what you don’t have instead. If it is not addressed, comparison can lead to poor mental health and issues like anxiety and depression. The good news is that you can train yourself to stop this habit and focus on gratitude instead.

How Comparison Can Damage Mental Health

Everyone is on a different path in life, and everyone faces personal and unique challenges along the way. You may look at someone who has accomplished more than you in the professional world and wonder what you have done wrong. You might not know about the possible connections and assistance that individuals had to get to where they are at today that you may not have received. When you spend all your time wishing you had more or were at a different place in life, you are missing out on the current moment and forgetting to celebrate where you are at right now. This can lead to unnecessary stress, anxiety, and even unintentional resentment toward the person you are comparing yourself to.

Comparison and Social Media

In this day and age, much comparison occurs based on social media. There are many problems with this, but the biggest one is that so many people forget or do not realize that what people post on social media is the highlight of their life. They are sharing their successes, happy moments throughout their day, or good things that happen to them. They are likely not going to show the difficult times, the setbacks, the disappointments, or the relationship problems. While they may appear happy and smiling in their latest selfie, they could be struggling with private battles behind the scenes that we know nothing about. Thus, because social media does not paint a full and accurate picture of someone’s life, it is illogical to use it as a way of comparing ourselves to others.

Learning to Practice Gratitude

You may not yet be where you want to be in life, and that’s ok. It is good to have goals and dreams to look forward to and push yourself towards. However, it is also important to remember to celebrate where you are right now at this very moment. Learning to practice gratitude on a daily basis is incredibly important for fostering good mental health and having a more positive mindset. You can train yourself to practice gratitude on a daily basis. For starters, consider getting a journal and writing down at least three things that you’re grateful for each day before bed. This could include something good that happened to you during the day or something more simple like your family, friends, or even your health. On some days, this practice may be easier than others, and that is okay. By doing this before bed, you are more likely to go to bed with a grateful, positive mindset that can carry through to the next morning. When you start making a habit of practicing gratitude, you’ll find yourself doing it without having to think about it.

Another great way to practice gratitude is to take the time to celebrate the smaller successes in life. This could include getting a promotion, getting recognized for a project you completed, or reaching a certain goal you set for yourself. While it might not seem like a big deal to you, you worked hard to accomplish it, and you deserve to celebrate it. Don’t be afraid to share your successes with others and allow them to celebrate with you. You can also reward yourself in some way to mark your success.

It can be helpful to physically track your progress towards accomplishing a certain goal either by journaling or logging milestones on a digital platform. This way, on the more challenging days, you can always look back and see how far you’ve come. You may have accomplished much more than you even realized. 

Comparison is a very easy habit to fall into and it can start at an early age. While it may start innocently enough, it can lead to problems like low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression when it carries through adulthood. Comparison is bad for your mental health because it takes your attention away from the good in yourself and instead causes you to focus on what you don’t have. The good news is that you can take steps toward breaking this habit. This includes recognizing that everyone is on their own path in life and social media typically depicts only the highlights and not the disappointments or setbacks. This also includes learning to practice gratitude on a daily basis. You can do this by celebrating your successes in life and reflecting on what you’re grateful for. At Achieve Concierge we can help you achieve great mental health. Call (858) 221-0344 today. 

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Severe PMS and Mental Health

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It is common knowledge that women can be a little more cranky and emotional around their menstrual cycle. However, for some women, their period is not just an inconvenience but something that can be incredibly debilitating and detrimental to their mental health. In fact, some women suffer from a condition called Premenstrual dysphoric disorder, or PMDD. While people with this disorder will likely experience both mental and physical side effects, the most concerning side effects, in this case, are often how an individual is affected mentally. Typically, women who suffer from this disorder experience severe depression around the time of their menstrual cycle. This is a serious condition, and it is important to raise awareness about it so those that do suffer from it can know to seek proper help.

Understanding What PMDD Is

Someone with this type of disorder will typically experience side effects anywhere from seven to ten days before their cycle begins. Just as is common with typical premenstrual syndrome, a woman with this disorder will often experience breast tenderness, bloating, cramps, and changes in their eating or sleeping habits. The issues that are going to really stand out are in connection with their mood. Someone with PMDD will often experience feelings of incredible sadness, hopelessness, and frustration. They may go through very sudden mood changes, become irrationally angry and even lash out at those they love. They may also feel very anxious and tense.

Doctors do not know exactly why some women experience this disorder, and others do not. However, it is believed that it is connected to the changes in hormones that occur during a woman’s menstrual cycle. The good news is that some preventative measures and treatments are available, and those who suffer from this disorder do not need to do so in silence.

Seeking Treatment for PMDD

If you think you suffer from PMDD, the first thing you should do is reach out to your primary care provider. Remember that this is nothing to be ashamed of and that you’re not the only woman going through this. Your doctor can help provide you with a diagnosis and help you take the first steps towards feeling better. In some cases, prescription medication is necessary to help a person struggling with this disorder. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors may help reduce symptoms. A doctor may also recommend that someone with PMDD consider going on birth control. Some birth controls can help regulate hormones and reduce not only the mental side effects of PMDD but the physical ones as well.

Some additional ideas that may help someone struggling with PMDD include:

  • Take daily supplements, especially Vitamin B-6 and magnesium. (Be sure to talk to your doctor before taking any new supplements.)
  • Cutting back on caffeine can increase anxiety and make mental symptoms worse. It can also increase bloating and indigestion.
  • Avoiding tobacco
  • Exercising regularly
  • Getting enough sleep on a regular basis
  • Eating well-rounded, nutritious meals
  • Avoiding overly salty or heavily processed foods
  • Drink plenty of water
  • Consider using a heating pad on your lower abdomen
  • Take a hot bath

Do not Forget Self-Care

Self-care is so important for good, stable mental health, but it is especially crucial for those who struggle with PMDD. While some people consider self-care selfish, it is not at all. Rather, it is the process of doing whatever is necessary to take care of your mental, emotional, and physical well-being. The type of self-care that works for one person might not work for the next. The key is finding what is most effective for you. Consider the things that bring you joy, contentment, and satisfaction. These are the things you should focus on extra hard during this time. They can make a significant difference in your life. Some common examples of self-care include:

  • Listening to relaxing music
  • Taking the time to journal and work through your emotions
  • Asking for help when you need it
  • Spending quality time with a family member or friend
  • Talking to a therapist
  • Trying some breathing exercises
  • Spending time in the presence of a calming animal
  • Reading a chapter of a book
  • Cooking your favorite, healthy meal
  • Taking a day off from work
  • Taking a nap
  • Watching the sunset
  • Turn off your phone for awhile
  • Watch an episode of one of your favorite uplifting shows
  • Go for a drive without having any specific destination
  • Go for a walk or take a bike ride
  • Spend time out in nature
  • Write down five things that you’re grateful for
  • Destress with a calming cup of non-caffeinated tea

For some women, their monthly menstrual cycle is nothing more than an inconvenience that they have to prepare for. They might be a little cranky and experience some cramps that eventually pass. But for some women, their period can be very debilitating and can take a toll on their mental health, even causing severe anxiety and depression. Premenstrual dysphoric disorder, or PMDD, is a condition in which women experience extremely serious mental health trouble during their period as a result of changes in their hormones. This condition can often be remedied by antidepressants or by going on birth control. Supplements and diet, and lifestyle changes can also help relieve symptoms. If you struggle with this condition, you’ll want to be sure you’re practicing self-care. At Achieve Concierge, we can help you achieve better mental health. Call (858) 221-0344 today to learn more about the types of services we provide. 

Using Journaling to Cope With Mental Health Disorders

Using Journaling to Cope With Mental Health Disorders

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Many kids and teenagers grow up keeping a secret diary stashed somewhere in their room. It was a way of expressing their thoughts and feelings without having to worry about other people judging them. Their diary may have served as a sort of confidant that helped them understand the world around them more clearly. While you might have considered keeping a journal or diary as something that was just for fun as a kid, journaling can have tremendous mental health benefits and is a great tool to carry into adulthood. It is a way to get your jumbled thoughts out of your head and onto paper. Suppose you struggle with any mental health disorders like anxiety, depression, PTSD (Post Traumatic Distress Disorder), or bipolar disorder. In that case, journaling can be especially helpful in working your stress in a productive way and better understanding how you’re feeling. Consider making journaling a part of your daily life starting today. 

The Mental Health Benefits of Journaling 

If you need more motivation to pick up the practice of journaling, consider some of the following benefits. 

#1.) Journaling allows you to prioritize your fears and feeling. Throughout the day, you may find yourself stuffing your emotions down deep inside of you in order to not only be able to function enough to take care of your daily tasks but also out of fear of what others may think of you. When you journal, you can finally let these fears out onto the page and give them the attention. This can be a very cathartic experience as it allows for you to finally release these emotions you have been holding onto. 

#2.) Journaling can provide you with a different perspective. Often our fears can snowball in our heads, even reaching the point of becoming irrational. When you work through how you’re feeling through journaling, you may find that these fears do not pose an actual problem and that what you’re afraid of is very unlikely to happen. 

#3.) Journaling helps you to become more self-aware. It is easy to rush through the day, going from one thing to the next without taking the time to consider how you’re feeling. When you journal, you can track the ups and downs of your mental state, and you may even be able to find patterns or better understand what possible triggers in your life are impacting your mental health. 

#4.) Journaling allows for positive self-talk. It helps you understand what negative habits or thought processes you need to address in order to improve your mental health. 

#5.) When you journal, you have the opportunity to work through how you feel before you talk about them to someone else. For example, if you had a fight with a friend, you can work through any anger and resentment before confronting them, thus decreasing the chance that you might explode or say something you don’t mean. 

Starting the Journaling Process 

If you want to start journaling but have never done so before and don’t know where to start, consider the following tips:

#1.) Get yourself a journal. This could be a physical notebook you’ll write in by hand, or it can be a document you keep on your phone or computer. Just remember to keep it somewhere where anyone else won’t find it.

#2.) Don’t feel like you have to follow any specific rules. This journal is for your benefit, not anybody else’s. So you can use it any way that you find fit. Write anything that pops into your head. You may even consider doodling in it if that helps you work through your thoughts. 

#3.) Try to stay consistent with it. If you can work journaling into a specific part of your daily routine so that you’ll be more likely to remember to do it. It may be especially beneficial to do it before bed because it allows you to work through your emotions before going to sleep, creating a more restful mental space. 

#4.) Make it an enjoyable experience. You might consider lighting a candle while you’re journaling, sipping a cup of tea, listening to calming music, or even using fun pens. 

Continue to Practice Other Stress-Relieving Habits 

While journaling has many benefits, you’ll want to continue practicing additional ways to care for your mental health. This involves getting plenty of sleep, eating nutritious meals, exercising regularly, and working with a therapist if necessary. Some other additional self-care methods could include yoga, spending time out in nature, taking a walk, or taking a break from social media. 

While you may have journaled just for fun when you were a kid, journaling actually has quite a few benefits and is worth continuing during adulthood. Journaling can be especially beneficial if you struggle with a mental health disorder like anxiety, depression, or bipolar disorder. Journaling allows you to prioritize your concerns and emotions, work through how you’re feeling, and provide you with a new perspective. It can also help you track your mental state and recognize different factors that may affect your feelings. When you’re journaling, don’t worry about following any rules but write whatever you want. You can even doodle if you want to. Try to stay consistent with this practice and make it as an enjoyable experience as possible. At Achieve Concierge, we want to help you achieve better mental health. Call (858) 221-0344 today to learn more. 

Investing in a Healthy Morning Routine

Investing in a Healthy Morning Routine

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The morning is one of the most important times of the day. It can dictate what type of mood you’re in, how productive you are, and how your overall day will go. For many, morning can be stressful and unpleasant. They may find themselves running from one thing to the next the second they jump out of bed. Others may feel lethargic, stressed, and even anxious in the morning. The morning time doesn’t have to be stressful. In fact, by implementing a healthy morning routine, you can boost your mental health and overall productivity throughout the day. All it takes is a little planning and a set schedule to stick to on a daily basis. 

Planning Ahead of Time 

Most people value their sleep so much they’re hesitant to give any of it up and sleep until the last minute every morning. You only need to sacrifice at least 30 mins of sleep in order to have enough time to incorporate a good morning routine. This means you may have to take care of some things you would ordinarily due in the mornings the night before. For example, consider taking a shower at night instead of in the morning, packing your lunch ahead of time, having your outfit for the day already picked out and ready for you, and making sure your bag is packed for the day. This way, you’ll have more time to spend to yourself in the morning, and there will be far less stress and rushing around. 

Put Your Health First 

The first thing you want to do when your alarm goes off in the morning is to get out of bed and open the curtains to allow the sunlight into your room. Sunlight is not only good for your mental health, but it can help wake you up. It can also help make your bed right away, making you less likely to crawl back in. Are you the kind of person who reaches for your phone and scrolls through texts, emails, and social media the second you get out of bed? Because this can lead to stress first thing in the morning, try to avoid your phone until after your morning routine has been completed. 

You will also want to consider what you’re drinking first thing in the morning. If coffee is normally your first beverage of the day, consider having water with lemon first. Staying hydrated can not only improve your digestion but also boost your energy and mental health. 

Start With Gratitude 

Gratitude is so important for good mental health. No matter what stresses or low points you may come across during your day, and there will always be things for you to be grateful for. By starting the day with a grateful heart, you’ll be more likely to think positively and handle any problems that may come your way. To better foster gratitude, consider starting your day by writing down at least three things that you’re grateful for in a journal. The more you do this, the more gratitude will become second nature to you, and you’ll be practicing it without having to think about it as much. 

Get Your Body Moving 

Some people might not have the time or opportunity to fit a whole workout in the morning. If this is your case, you can still find other ways to get your body moving. This could include simply stretching or trying out yoga. Yoga is an excellent option because it allows you to move your body while also focusing on how you feel mentally and emotionally. It can also lead to boosted energy and a better overall mood. 

Plan Out Your Day 

If you struggle with stress and anxiety, making planning a part of your day may help. Proper planning involves more than glancing at a calendar, but actually taking the time to write down what you need to do each day and determining which of these things are high priority and which are not. Once you have done this, you can place an order for your tasks from most important to least important. The most important include things that must be accomplished during the day, and the least important are tasks that can be put off to a different day. Having this priority system and knowing what you need to do during the day can help lessen feelings of being overwhelmed and overworked. 

Once you have completed this part of your routine and taken time for your mental health, you can then begin with the next part of your morning and take care of things like eating breakfast and getting dressed. 

The mornings are stressful and hectic for many people, but they don’t have to be. By waking up 30 minutes early each day, you can incorporate a healthy morning routine that can help relieve stress, improve your mood, and enhance your overall well-being. It starts with getting out of bed right as your alarm goes off and avoiding looking at your phone right away. You’ll also want to make sure you take care of your physical health by staying hydrated and getting your body moving, if only for 10 minutes or so. You can start your day on a positive note by practicing gratitude and using a planner or notebook to help determine your priority items for the day. At Achieve Concierge, we want to help you ensure that your mental health is the best it can be. Call us at (858) 221-0344 today.

Implementing a Successful Nighttime Routine to Prevent Anxiety

Implementing a Successful Nighttime Routine to Prevent Anxiety

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The evenings are supposed to be the time to rest, enjoy activities we enjoy, spend quality time with our loved ones, and prepare our bodies and minds for sleep. Unfortunately, if you’re a parent, student, someone with a high-stress job, or simply someone who has a lot of things on their plate that you’re trying to keep up with, this is often not how our evenings look. Between helping your kids finish homework, taking care of after-school activities, making deadlines, or trying to get errands accomplished, you may find yourself running from one thing to the next. This constant wave of business can take a toll on your mental health. Do you often fall into bed at the end of the night without ever taking any time for yourself, only to do the same thing the next day? This is why it is so important to incorporate a healthy nighttime routine into your daily life.

Understanding Why Nighttime Routines are Essential

As humans, we are creatures of habit. When we make an effort to establish healthy habits regularly, we are essentially setting ourselves up for greater success. A healthy nighttime routine allows you to take the time to deal with stressful or anxious thoughts in advance so that you don’t go to bed with these things still on your mind. This, in turn, allows you a better chance to wake up with a positive mindset the next day.

Proper routines can help you fall asleep quicker and activate your sympathetic nervous system, allowing you to relax and fall asleep faster. It’s also important to note that nighttime routines can certainly play into the length and quality of sleep one experiences each night. The more you practice proper evening routines, the more able you will be to separate night from day.

Establishing a New Nighttime Routine

The following steps can help you establish a proper nighttime routine that can change your life.

#1.) Set a specific schedule and do your best to stick to it. You’ll want to begin your nighttime routine at least 30 minutes before the time you plan to go to bed. When you establish a set sleep cycle, it will be easier for you to fall asleep at night, and you’ll be more likely to feel rested and refreshed the next day.

#2.) Put away all screens and electronics. The light from screens can activate your brain and make it harder to fall asleep, you don’t want work emails, social media, or the news to be the last thing on your brain when you go to sleep. You may even consider shutting your phone off entirely and placing it in a different room so you’ll be less tempted to look at it.

#3.) Avoid big meals right before bedtime. Eating before going to sleep can cause acid reflux and other digestive issues that may disrupt your sleep quality throughout the night. Instead, consider a glass of ice water with lemon or a calming cup of noncaffeinated herbal tea, such as chamomile or lavender. If you have to have a snack, keep it like and opt for some fruit, nuts, or yogurt.

#4.) Consider taking a warm bath. This can help you unwind, find relief from sore muscles, and start feeling more relaxed and ready for bed. You may even consider lighting some candles and using some bath products to make it feel a little more fun and special.

#5.) Consider practicing yoga or some other form of meditation. Not only can this help you to feel more in tune with your mind and body, but it can also ease muscle tension. To further relax, you may also decide to listen to some calming music while doing this.

#6.) Try journaling or writing a to-do list before bed. Do you often feel like you have a million things running around your head, and you’re afraid to forget something? Writing everything out can help ease stress and process how you feel so you’re less likely to lay in bed for hours and worry. Having a to-do list already written can also make you feel more prepared for the day ahead.

#7.) Prepare your room for bed. You’ll want to make sure the thermostat is set reasonably low so that you won’t overheat during the night. You’ll also want to remove any distractions and ensure that the room is as quiet and dark as possible. You may consider turning on some white noise to help block out other noises that may be going on in other areas of the house.

Do you often find yourself running from one thing to the next all day long, only to fall into bed at night without having taken any time for yourself? Many people’s schedules are pretty much filled from when they wake up in the morning until they go to bed at night. This practice can take a toll on your mental health as time goes on. This is why it is so important to implement a healthy nighttime routine that begins at least 30 minutes before you intend to go to bed. Some tips are to spend this time meditating, avoiding electronics, journaling or writing a to-do list, taking a warm bath, and preparing your mind and body for sleep. At Achieve Concierge, we want to help you achieve your best possible state of mental health. Call (858) 221-0344 today to learn more about the types of services that we provide. 

How to Combat Mental Health Problems While in Your Twenties

How to Combat Mental Health Problems While in Your Twenties

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In some ways, it would seem that people in their twenties have it all. They still have their youth, are less likely to have health problems, and oftentimes have fewer responsibilities. You’re still learning how to be independent and figure out life. However, being in your twenties can be a rather difficult and confusing time as well. You may be struggling with finding the right career path, building up a solid group of friends, or you may be saddled with heavy student loan debt. This is also a time when it is easy to compare yourself to others. You may look at a friend who is already married and starting a family and think that you’re behind in life because you’re not ready for that yet. Because of these challenges, it is easy to develop mental health problems while in your twenties. The key is being able to recognize when these problems are occurring and know what the right steps are to address them.

Seeking Out Like-Minded People

One of the best things you can surround yourself with during your twenties is a positive and supportive friend group. Perhaps the friends that you had growing up have moved away, and you’re not able to see them as often. Or perhaps, you’re living in a new town where you don’t know many people yet. It can be hard to know where to start when it comes to making new connections. It can help to consider what your passions are and go from there. For example, if you attend a church, they may have a young adult group that you can connect with. Or, if you’re interested in something like photography, martial arts, cooking, or a certain sport, there may be a local club that you can join to find others with similar interests. If you’re not comfortable doing this, you may also consider trying out a social app. For example, the app Bumble BFF is built to help form platonic relationships that are local to you with people you may have similar interests with. This way, you can get to know the individual before meeting them face to face.

Avoiding Comparison to Others

While this is a time in life when a comparison is a particularly easy habit to fall into, it’s important to do your best to avoid this. This is because everyone is on their own path, and while some people may seem further along in their education, career, or otherwise, you don’t know what connections or assistance they had to get there. Additionally, it is important to remember that social media is not reality. When you’re scrolling through an app like Instagram, you’re looking at a highlight reel of someone’s life. People tend not to share their bad days or hard times. While someone may appear happy and as if they have it all together on social media, they could be dealing with things behind closed doors that you know nothing about.

Practicing Stress Management

With the changes and self-growth that occur in your twenties, it can easily be a time of stress. That’s why it’s so important that you learn and establish healthy and productive stress management habits. This includes taking care of your physical health by eating nutritious meals, fitting exercise into your daily life, and getting plenty of sleep. The more you take care of your physical health, the better your mental health will be. You’ll also want to manage your stress levels by practicing self-care regularly. What self-care is exactly is dependent upon the person, but it is essentially doing anything that can help protect your mental, emotional and physical well-being. Some examples may include:

  • Practicing some form of meditation
  • Taking a break from social media
  • Spending time out in nature
  • Reading a chapter of an uplifting book
  • Practicing breathing exercises
  • Spending quality time with a loved one
  • Taking the time to cook a nutritious meal
  • Asking for help when you feel overwhelmed
  • Taking a nap

Seeking Professional Treatment

If you feel as if you have done your best to manage your stress levels and take care of your mental health but aren’t getting the results you want, it may be time to seek professional help. While this may seem scary, mental health disorders are very common, and there are many treatment options available. If you don’t know where to start, speak with your primary care physician. They can help provide any necessary diagnoses, connect you with a therapist that will meet your needs, and provide any necessary prescriptions.

You’re making the transition to being independent and still figuring out your career path. While it may seem like the twenties are some of the most fun or free years of your life, this can also be a hard and confusing time. It is normal to feel stressed or to deal with other mental health problems during this time. The key is knowing how to manage this stress and asking for help when needed. It is important to remember to avoid comparison, support yourself with only positive people, practice good stress management and self-care, and not be afraid to seek professional mental health treatment if necessary. Remember, mental health disorders are common and can be treated. At Achieve Concierge, we want to help you achieve better mental health today. Call (858) 221-0344 today to learn more about the different types of treatments that we provide. 

Things to Celebrate in July to Combat Depression

Things to Celebrate in July to Combat Depression

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One of the best things you can do to help establish better mental health is to make it a habit to celebrate the little things in life. Not every day is going to be a good day, but that doesn’t mean that there is not some good in every day worth celebrating if you know where to look for it. Many people feel like they have to wait for the next big achievement or major holiday to have a reason to celebrate. This is simply not the case. Consider looking into the small events and national observances that happen every month and taking the time to acknowledge them. This can not only boost your gratitude and overall mental health but can combat symptoms of anxiety and depression. Many things are coming up this July that is well worth celebrating.

Celebrating July 1ST (National Joke Day)

Sometimes, a good joke is all you need to brighten up someone’s day. Even corny jokes will work. Laughter is truly one of the best medicines for good mental health, and a joke can benefit not only the person you tell it to but your own mood. Take a moment or two to reach out to a friend today and share a joke, whether it be in person, over the phone, or through text message.

Celebrating July 4TH (Independence Day)

The 4th of July is such an important day for the United States as it is meant to honor all that our great nation stands for, our freedom, and the sacrifices that have gone into establishing the country as we know it today. If you’re looking for ways to celebrate this holiday, consider visiting a local cemetery dedicated to the lives lost in war, hosting or attending a bonfire with your loved ones, going to a local parade, or spending some time outside in nature, away from the distractions of day to day life. Remember that you don’t have to spend a ton of money purchasing fireworks of your own. Ask around town to find out where the best free show is!

Celebrating July 10TH (National Kitten Day)

Do you live alone or ever struggle with loneliness? Perhaps you can benefit from the companionship that comes from a pet. Research shows that in some cases, animals can actually reduce stress levels and improve overall mental health. If you are in the situation and have the means to adopt a new cat into your family this year, consider taking a trip to your local animal shelter and looking into adoption or serving as a foster parent for a pet in need. If you’re not in the position to bring a new pet into your home, consider doing some volunteer work. Many shelters are bursting at the seem and desperate for volunteers to help out.

Celebrating July 11TH (Cheer up the Lonely Day)

July 11th is an observance you may not have heard of before called “Cheer up the Lonely Day.” Consider who you know in life that could be lonely. It could be an elderly neighbor who lives alone, a coworker who typically eats lunch by themselves, or the quiet kid at school who rarely speaks up in class. A smile or a simple “hello, how are you doing?” can make a huge difference in a person’s day. You may also consider looking into volunteering at a local nursing home. Many people within these facilities do not have family members who visit them regularly, and they may live in a constant state of loneliness.

Celebrating July 27TH (National Love Is Kind Day)

July 27th is National Love is Kind Day, a day to recognize freedom from domestic abuse. Domestic abuse, unfortunately, affects many people of all ages across the nation. This is the day to celebrate victims of domestic abuse and the bravery it took for them to seek help and get out of their situation. It is also a day to give a voice to those who are currently suffering, spread awareness about the dangers of domestic abuse, and acknowledge that true love is kind and not violent. You may consider using social media to spread awareness about domestic abuse on this day, volunteering for a domestic abuse prevention organization, or donating to a charity that helps protect and take care of victims of domestic abuse. If you know someone in your life you suspect is in a domestic abuse situation, reach out to them and offer your support. This is an issue that happens far more frequently than you may realize.

It is so important to celebrate the little things in life. This involves not waiting for the big commercial holidays for an excuse to celebrate but taking the time to recognize the smaller observances that occur each and every month. This can help foster gratitude, give you something to look forward to, and help to foster better overall mental health. Remember that while every day may not necessarily be a good day, there are still things worth celebrating in it. During the month of July, take the time to celebrate things like National Joke Day, Independence Day, and National Love is Kind Day. They might not be the holidays that everybody talks about; they can still make a difference and may even boost your mental health. At Achieve Concierge, we want you to achieve your best possible mental health. Call (858) 221-0344 today to learn more.